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Posted by: Kerry
« on: Today at 02:05:02 am »

Anthony Ray Hinton was convicted and sentenced to the most extreme penalty for a crime he did not do because he was poor and because of the color of his skin. He spent 30 years in prison until, with the help of Bryan Stevenson, was released. Finally free and back in the world, Anthony has a message to share with everyone. "If we can teach people to hate, we can teach them to love".
An amazing story. 
Posted by: Heartsong
« on: March 22, 2026, 04:33:06 am »

Anthony Ray Hinton was convicted and sentenced to the most extreme penalty for a crime he did not do because he was poor and because of the color of his skin. He spent 30 years in prison until, with the help of Bryan Stevenson, was released. Finally free and back in the world, Anthony has a message to share with everyone. "If we can teach people to hate, we can teach them to love".

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWafl_2gIKE
Posted by: Heartsong
« on: November 01, 2025, 03:33:33 pm »

So, in general, an American have now more chance to have enemies around him, therefore, to have more chance to love enemies  ;)
My problem lately is that I have no enemies around me  :(
They do have the chance to love their enemies but they have to choose to do that and that often requires that they make a change in their thinking, understanding and in their life. I've heard people say that they had to hit "rock bottom" or had to have something "drastic" happen to them before they were able to take steps to make the needed changes in their lives and for many that's when they started seeking God and that is the foundation that is needed to make those kind of changes in a person's life. Then they begin to care about others and are able to love their enemies and no longer have hate. Arno Michaels, the former white nationalist is a good example of this and he said, "I needed something drastic to happen in order to kind of push me over those last couple steps.
Posted by: KerimF
« on: November 01, 2025, 11:46:51 am »

I used to believe that Americans, for example, didn't view other Americans as enemies. There seems to be a view that just because someone disagrees with someone else that it is because of hate. There doesn't seem to be a willingness to agree to disagree. This is especially true with politics. Even worse now there are those who celebrate the death and call for the death of those who have a different political view. Now there are those who view others as enemies, real enemies. There are so many things that have been used to not only divide people but to cause hate and to believe that violence is acceptable and even to take the life of someone is acceptable who has a different political view or just a different view or different belief.

So, in general, an American have now more chance to have enemies around him, therefore, to have more chance to love enemies  ;)
My problem lately is that I have no enemies around me  :(
Posted by: Heartsong
« on: October 31, 2025, 07:51:53 pm »

These are my 2 cents.
If there are no people at all who don't mind hurting others as a sign of superiority for example, real enemies won't exist. This lets Jesus' saying: "Love your enemies" have no practical meaning in one's life... due to lack of those enemies  :(
I used to believe that Americans, for example, didn't view other Americans as enemies. There seems to be a view that just because someone disagrees with someone else that it is because of hate. There doesn't seem to be a willingness to agree to disagree. This is especially true with politics. Even worse now there are those who celebrate the death and call for the death of those who have a different political view. Now there are those who view others as enemies, real enemies. There are so many things that have been used to not only divide people but to cause hate and to believe that violence is acceptable and even to take the life of someone is acceptable who has a different political view or just a different view or different belief. 
Posted by: KerimF
« on: October 31, 2025, 07:26:39 am »

These are my 2 cents.
If there are no people at all who don't mind hurting others as a sign of superiority for example, real enemies won't exist. This lets Jesus' saying: "Love your enemies" have no practical meaning in one's life... due to lack of those enemies  :(
Posted by: Heartsong
« on: October 31, 2025, 01:58:13 am »

Thanks for the exact quote, Heartsong.

I was pleased when he said people being kind to him was another important factor in motivating him to change.  I guess it broke down the illusion that everyone who wasn't like him hated him.
Kindness is a fruit of the Spirit and that's powerful.

I recall he said that there was a lack of self worth at the root of what caused these people to hate and become involved in violent extremism. He said that in order to help those people it was necessary to find out what was the root cause of the lack of self worth and the reason for that was different for each of those people. Also I was surprised that he said it wasn't political which I had thought that it was but it was more about acting out in hate and violent extremism because of lack of self worth and not necessarily toward anyone in particular although there were those who were targeted but it was also toward anyone who wasn't them. They enjoyed being violent and the hate seemed like quicksand pulling them down into darkness and destruction.

Posted by: Kerry
« on: October 29, 2025, 11:09:24 pm »

This is what he said about that.

"I needed something drastic to happen in order to kind of push me over those last couple steps. What happened was, was early in 1994, the mother of my daughter and I broke up, go figure, but hate and violence and alcohol is not a recipe for a healthy relationship between a man and a woman. And I found myself a single parent to our 18-month-old daughter. "

That's all he says about that on this video. He said that he was involved in hate, violence and alcohol so he and the mother of his daughter broke up because obviously it wasn't a healthy relationship. He didn't say the mother of his daughter was involved in those things. So he either got custody of his daughter after the break up and became a single parent that way or he had shared custody and in effect was a single parent. 
It doesn't sound like he had his life together at that point as far as being completely out of that violent lifestyle and being an alcoholic so I would think the mother of his daughter got custody. I do know of people in similar situations who refer to themselves as single parents even though they don't have full custody. He doesn't go into those details so it's speculation on my part.
Thanks for the exact quote, Heartsong.

I was pleased when he said people being kind to him was another important factor in motivating him to change.  I guess it broke down the illusion that everyone who wasn't like him hated him. 
Posted by: Heartsong
« on: October 29, 2025, 03:49:18 am »

I should have listened to one part again.  Did he say his wife left him to be a single dad to an eighteen year daughter?  That's so hard to imagine, I can't figure out what her problems were.  I can see why she wouldn't want to live with him, but why would she leave a baby with him?  Was she on drugss to handle the pressure?  Was she unemployed?
This is what he said about that.

"I needed something drastic to happen in order to kind of push me over those last couple steps. What happened was, was early in 1994, the mother of my daughter and I broke up, go figure, but hate and violence and alcohol is not a recipe for a healthy relationship between a man and a woman. And I found myself a single parent to our 18-month-old daughter. "

That's all he says about that on this video. He said that he was involved in hate, violence and alcohol so he and the mother of his daughter broke up because obviously it wasn't a healthy relationship. He didn't say the mother of his daughter was involved in those things. So he either got custody of his daughter after the break up and became a single parent that way or he had shared custody and in effect was a single parent. 
It doesn't sound like he had his life together at that point as far as being completely out of that violent lifestyle and being an alcoholic so I would think the mother of his daughter got custody. I do know of people in similar situations who refer to themselves as single parents even though they don't have full custody. He doesn't go into those details so it's speculation on my part.
Posted by: Kerry
« on: October 28, 2025, 11:19:03 pm »

Arno Michaelis is a former white nationalist skinhead, lead singer of the neo-Nazi metal band Centurion, and member of Hammerskin Nation, one of the most violent white supremacist gangs in the US.

From 1987 to 1994, Michaelis played a central role in spreading neo-Nazi ideology through music, street violence, and recruitment efforts across the United States and beyond. His band sold over 20,000 copies of its white supremacist albums within six months.

Michaelis provides a rare look inside the world of violent extremism, detailing how white nationalist groups recruit young men, fund their operations, and use propaganda to radicalize followers. He describes the brutality of life inside the movement, the constant state of fear and paranoia, and how his involvement led to addiction, crime, and self-destruction.

After leaving the movement, Michaelis became an anti-hate activist, speaker, and author. He works with Parents for Peace to deradicalize extremists, exposing the tactics used by white nationalist groups and guiding individuals away from the influence of extremism through prevention. He is the author of "My Life After Hate" and "The Gift of Our Wounds," which was cowritten with Pardeep Singh Kaleka, whose father was killed in the Oak Creek Sikh temple shooting.

How US Neo-Nazism Actually Works | Authorized Account | Insider
I was a neo-Nazi for 7 years going through life in constant hate and fear. My daughter was the major push I needed to finally quit"
I should have listened to one part again.  Did he say his wife left him to be a single dad to an eighteen year daughter?  That's so hard to imagine, I can't figure out what her problems were.  I can see why she wouldn't want to live with him, but why would she leave a baby with him?  Was she on drugss to handle the pressure?  Was she unemployed? 
Posted by: Heartsong
« on: October 28, 2025, 01:19:21 pm »

Arno Michaelis is a former white nationalist skinhead, lead singer of the neo-Nazi metal band Centurion, and member of Hammerskin Nation, one of the most violent white supremacist gangs in the US.

From 1987 to 1994, Michaelis played a central role in spreading neo-Nazi ideology through music, street violence, and recruitment efforts across the United States and beyond. His band sold over 20,000 copies of its white supremacist albums within six months.

Michaelis provides a rare look inside the world of violent extremism, detailing how white nationalist groups recruit young men, fund their operations, and use propaganda to radicalize followers. He describes the brutality of life inside the movement, the constant state of fear and paranoia, and how his involvement led to addiction, crime, and self-destruction.

After leaving the movement, Michaelis became an anti-hate activist, speaker, and author. He works with Parents for Peace to deradicalize extremists, exposing the tactics used by white nationalist groups and guiding individuals away from the influence of extremism through prevention. He is the author of "My Life After Hate" and "The Gift of Our Wounds," which was cowritten with Pardeep Singh Kaleka, whose father was killed in the Oak Creek Sikh temple shooting.

How US Neo-Nazism Actually Works | Authorized Account | Insider
I was a neo-Nazi for 7 years going through life in constant hate and fear. My daughter was the major push I needed to finally quit"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-g3Z8IWsdU
Posted by: Heartsong
« on: July 04, 2025, 01:02:35 pm »

Stranger pays for man's gas bill — with one simple request


Tyson Crawley recently realized he couldn't pay for his purchase at a gas station, and he was shocked by what happened next.

One man's generous act at a gas station has inspired a string of kindness.

Tyson Crawley of New South Wales, Australia, had just filled his car up with gas and grabbed a couple coffees last Friday when he went to the register and realized he couldn't pay for his purchase. He'd recently opened a new bank account and had forgotten the pin number, and had no cash on hand.

"My dog was barking wildly, I had to get to work, and I was starting to freak," Crawley wrote in a popular Facebook post about the incident.

Tyson Crawley was surprised when a stranger — later identified as John Kennedy Jr. — paid his gas bill.

That's when another man at the store stepped in and offered to pay, picking up Crawley's AU$110 tab (about $84). Crawley, 30, was stunned. When he asked the man to write down his contact information so he could pay him back, the man simply wrote his name and the words "pass it on."

"I was just incredibly overwhelmed," Crawley told TODAY. "I couldn't believe how beautiful and kind people could be."

He asked to take a selfie with the man, who has since been identified as John Kennedy Jr., a Michigan-born ice hockey player who plays for the Newcastle North Stars, a team in New South Wales. The photo has since gone viral.

In a Facebook post, the team wrote that it's "not surprised" to hear about what Kennedy did, as "we know his quality of character."

"We hope to continue on following your example," the team wrote.

Crawley hopes to meet Kennedy again: "It will be good to catch up and get a beer one day," he said.

He's also been fulfilling his part of the bargain, and paying the kindness forward.

"I decided I was going to start my journey in the same sense, so I went back to the same service station and I just walked in and asked to pay for a man's fuel," Crawley said. "On the back of the receipt, I wrote, 'Tyson — pass it on,' the same way John did."

He hopes the story helps encourage other people to be kind and "to look out for each other no matter who we are in the world."


https://www.today.com/news/stranger-pays-man-s-gas-bill-one-simple-request-t103358
Posted by: Heartsong
« on: June 24, 2025, 04:05:33 pm »

Dallas restaurant owner shuts down weekly to feed homeless


Once a week, Paulette Johnson shuts down her South Dallas restaurant to paying customers, so she can serve the homeless or those in dire need.


Cooking is Paulette Johnson's passion.

At Trucker's Cafe at 1910 Martin Luther King, Blvd. in South Dallas, it's the Monday lunch crowd that really feeds her soul.

They aren't the usual clientele.

Once a week, Johnson shuts down her restaurant to paying customers so she can serve the homeless or those in dire need.

Here, they get a hot meal, clothes, shoes, toiletries. But most of all, Johnson wants them to walk away with hope.

"I just feel blessed that somebody is out here to care, people like us," said Barbara Jameson, who has an easy smile despite the hardships that led her to Johnson's Monday lunch.

"My heart just flooded, there's no word ,I just feel good," Johnson said. "I been aching all day in the morning, feet everything, dealing with my health, but once I see these guys, all that goes away."

Paulette knows what it's like to go without. She grew up in a battered women's shelter, where she learned to cook and give back.

"I just thank God for waking me up, do what I do today. Because I know people out here struggling every day," Johnson said, through tears. "It's still hard for me, but I'm just worried about everybody that I could help. It's just me, and if I can help and put smiles on people's face, that's all I need."

Johnson said running a restaurant herself isn't easy, but she only spends on absolute necessities for herself and her family, so she has enough money to give back.

There's a sense of community during the Monday lunch. Doors open at noon, and everyone is greeted enthusiastically, and given a number and a seat when they walk in. Everyone is served a home-cooked hot meal when their number is called. No one is turned away.

Johnson invited singer Capt. Jack Watson to perform at her Monday lunch. He used to be homeless, and now travels with a band.

"Just hug them and inspire them and let them know, somebody up there still cares, still loves," Watson said. "Never look down on anybody because you never know, the next day that person might be up, and I'm a living example."

Johnson said she doesn't just serve the homeless on Mondays. She'll never throw food away, and will give any extra to those in need.

Trucker's Cafe is always looking for volunteers and donations for their Monday lunch. If you'd like to help you can stop by the restaurant.

If you're in need of a hot meal, you can stop by Mondays, noon to 2 p.m

https://www.wfaa.com/article/news/dallas-restaurant-owner-shuts-down-weekly-to-feed-homeless/287-540290596
Posted by: Heartsong
« on: June 03, 2025, 04:05:14 am »

Great story ! That’s an amazing save .

But sadly the man will have extensive burns to deal with for the rest of him life !

   If I put myself in his position I’m honestly not sure which way was best .
 I’m such a coward where pain is concerned , I’m guessing I’d would have rather died of smoke inhalation and not woken up.

    But we are all different , and if he wasn’t sure of his ending destiny , he is probably very glad to be alive!  :)


There are people who stand by and watch and record someone needing help and then there are people who don't hesitate to help someone even risking their own lives. We need more people like that who help especially these days.

The one young man said it made him feel good to save somebody's life and I thought of the scripture, .He who gives is more blessed(and receives greater joy) than he who receives.'”
Posted by: Helen
« on: June 02, 2025, 10:46:33 am »

Great story ! That’s an amazing save .

But sadly the man will have extensive burns to deal with for the rest of him life !

   If I put myself in his position I’m honestly not sure which way was best .
 I’m such a coward where pain is concerned , I’m guessing I’d would have rather died of smoke inhalation and not woken up.

    But we are all different , and if he wasn’t sure of his ending destiny , he is probably very glad to be alive!  :)