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These are my 2 cents.
If there are no people at all who don't mind hurting others as a sign of superiority for example, real enemies won't exist. This lets Jesus' saying: "Love your enemies" have no practical meaning in one's life... due to lack of those enemies 

This is what he said about that.

"I needed something drastic to happen in order to kind of push me over those last couple steps. What happened was, was early in 1994, the mother of my daughter and I broke up, go figure, but hate and violence and alcohol is not a recipe for a healthy relationship between a man and a woman. And I found myself a single parent to our 18-month-old daughter. "

That's all he says about that on this video. He said that he was involved in hate, violence and alcohol so he and the mother of his daughter broke up because obviously it wasn't a healthy relationship. He didn't say the mother of his daughter was involved in those things. So he either got custody of his daughter after the break up and became a single parent that way or he had shared custody and in effect was a single parent. 
It doesn't sound like he had his life together at that point as far as being completely out of that violent lifestyle and being an alcoholic so I would think the mother of his daughter got custody. I do know of people in similar situations who refer to themselves as single parents even though they don't have full custody. He doesn't go into those details so it's speculation on my part.

Arno Michaelis is a former white nationalist skinhead, lead singer of the neo-Nazi metal band Centurion, and member of Hammerskin Nation, one of the most violent white supremacist gangs in the US.

From 1987 to 1994, Michaelis played a central role in spreading neo-Nazi ideology through music, street violence, and recruitment efforts across the United States and beyond. His band sold over 20,000 copies of its white supremacist albums within six months.

Michaelis provides a rare look inside the world of violent extremism, detailing how white nationalist groups recruit young men, fund their operations, and use propaganda to radicalize followers. He describes the brutality of life inside the movement, the constant state of fear and paranoia, and how his involvement led to addiction, crime, and self-destruction.

After leaving the movement, Michaelis became an anti-hate activist, speaker, and author. He works with Parents for Peace to deradicalize extremists, exposing the tactics used by white nationalist groups and guiding individuals away from the influence of extremism through prevention. He is the author of "My Life After Hate" and "The Gift of Our Wounds," which was cowritten with Pardeep Singh Kaleka, whose father was killed in the Oak Creek Sikh temple shooting.

How US Neo-Nazism Actually Works | Authorized Account | Insider
I was a neo-Nazi for 7 years going through life in constant hate and fear. My daughter was the major push I needed to finally quit"

I like that.